目的:了解90后大学生的择偶标准、婚恋价值观、以及对大学生恋爱的教育。方法:采用整群抽样的方式,共有大学生被试513人,其中男生298人,女生215人。结果:90后大学生,最为看重的是对方的个人品质,如能对我好,个人人品,两人感情,个人的性格。家庭经济条件、对方才华、事业心、社会地位、别人评价、是否学生干部这六个方面,女生对异性的要求都要明显的高于男生对异性的要求。婚恋价值观包括的七个维度,婚姻倾向是最传统的,也就是说,大学生认为应该有一个美满的婚姻,其次是性爱抉择观,最为现代化思想的是婚姻自主观。女生在性爱抉择观(T=37.12,P〈0.001)和婚姻自主观上(T=27.76,P〈0.001)都要比男生观念传统。教育需求的调查表明,83%的学生认为恋爱需要教育,90.1%的学生认为自己没有能力应对失恋,2.7%的学生坦诚如果失恋,自己可能选择了结生命。大学生认为最需要了解的婚恋知识是正确的婚恋观,排在第二位是如何经营恋情,排在第三位的是如何应对失恋,排在第四位的是性健康教育,对大学生婚恋的教育也应该从这些方面入手。结论:大学生需要进行婚姻恋爱的教育和疏导。
Objective: to explore the criteria of the students in the generation after 90's for choosing spouse,their marriage values and relevant education demands. Methods: to adopt the way of cluster sampling. 513 college students were selected as samples,including 298 boys and 215 girls. Results: they mostly focused on each other's personal qualities,such as being good to me,good individual characters,feelings and individual personalities. As for other six standards: family economic conditions,other talents,dedication to work,social status,others' evaluation and good looking,girls held relatively higher standard than that of boys. Marriage values including seven dimensions,among which the tendency of marriage was the most traditional,that is to say,college students prefer a happy family first. And autonomy of marriage is the most modern. Girls with sense of sex(T = 37. 12,P 37. 12) and autonomy of marriage(T = 27. 76,P 0. 001) are more traditional than boys. Education demand survey found that 83% of students supported that they need education to learn how to love. And 90. 1% of the students thought they don 't have the ability to cope with brokenhearted situation. 2. 7% of the students even thought if they are brokenhearted,they would like to end their own lives. What college students need most is to understand the correct value on love and marriage,the way to run a relationship,the methods to deal with brokenhearted situation and sexual health education. Conclusion:college students need to take education and counseling of love and marriage.